Yesterday a woman wished me a Happy Thanksgiving and I politely replied with a "you too" or "happy holidays" or something. She crossed the street she had been previously crossing and she stopped on the opposite side. She turned around and said, "wait a minute! I've been saying that to everyone I meet and you're the first one to respond with anything and not be thrown off. Thank you."
To me, this was a nice moment in time and one that I've shared more than once with others in Chicago. I like saying hi to people that say hi to me. I have trouble NOT talking to people that approach me on the street, including yesterday while walking down Michigan avenue and Environmentalist Annie starts in asking how much time I have and I can't help but get out the sentences, "Oh, yes I am an environmentalist, but I work at the museum of science and industry in the smart home teaching other people how to be environmentally friendly and I have to go because my boyfriend and I are having a day. Bye." Ok, a long sentence.
This is obviously a chronic problem. One that maybe stems from coming from Rochester, MN, small-town big-city. Everyone knows everyone and if they don't then they know your brother. Or in my case my dad. I say 'hi' to people. I can't help it. Sometimes people just want to talk and have no one to talk to.
I'm still going to say hi to people. Even if they're crazy. I'm sorry.
Have a great day and thank you for taking the time to read!!!!
L. M. Burton
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